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Tit wank worries

Question

My boyfriend recently asked me for a tit wank. I know what it is but have no idea how to do it.

Answer

A tit wank (or cleavage sex) is where the penis is placed between the breasts, and moved up and down. There is no set way to do this, although some people like to squeeze the breasts together while doing this to simultaneously massage the breasts, along with the shaft and head of the penis.

First of all it is important to ask yourself if this is something you feel comfortable with. It is important not to feel pressurised into doing something that you are not comfortable with or ready for. If you feel ready, then you could discuss with your partner what you would like as well as what they would like. Communication is an important part of enjoying sex.

Also if you are thinking of having sex and need advice on different types of contraception, you can go along to your local doctor (GP), any other GP (once you have registered there for 'Contraceptive Services Only'), your local Brook Centre (for under 25s) or a local Family Planning Clinic. Advice is given in confidence and contraception will be free. You can also buy condoms from a chemist and other retail outlets.

Updated: 31/08/2005


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