Why am I so stressed by exams?
Exam stress could be caused by:
- Pressure from parents and relatives to do well
- The need to get high grades to get on track for the career you really want
- Uncertainty about what to do next – “There are so many options, what if I make the wrong choice?”
- The feeling of everything changing in your life – you might be moving away to university or going to college for example.
These fears and concerns are completely natural – your mates are probably feeling exactly the same, whether they let on or not. If these anxieties start to overwhelm you, don’t worry – there are things you can do to help yourself.
What is stress?
Stress is the reaction people have to excessive demands or pressures. Its very common to feel stressed around exam time. You might feel there’s a huge amount of pressure to do well, or anxious you can’t fit all the revision in. The build up to results day can also leave you feeling overwhelmed and run down.
Not only does stress mess with your mind – in extreme cases it can affect your physical health. Stressed out people have higher blood pressure. They are also prone to heart disease, colitis (inflammation of the bowels), thyroid disorders, and ulcers. But don’t worry – it’s extremely rare for stress to get so far out of control, especially if you deal with it when the first symptoms appear.
What are the symptoms of exam stress?
- Difficulty getting to sleep or difficulty waking up in the morning
- Constant fatigue
- Aches and pains for no apparent reason
- Poor appetite
- Social withdrawal
- Loss of interest in activities
- Increased anxiety and irritability
- “Flying off the handle”
- Increased heart rate
- Blurred vision
Everyone has bad days, but if you’ve noticed three or more of the above symptoms and you’ve experienced them for some weeks you may need to do something about your stress levels. Visit your doctor (GP) to rule out other possible reasons for the symptoms such as depression. If you are stressed, your GP may be able to advise you.
How can I deal with exam stress?
If you are suffering from stress, try some of the following ways to calm down and chill out:
- Try to make time for yourself away from your studies to wind down. For example, relaxing in a warm bubble bath, listening to soothing music and shutting out the world for a while.
- Take time for your mind and body to relax. Chatting with friends, meditation, yoga or just watching a bit of telly can take the edge off.
- Take time to exercise. Regular and frequent exercise is a good stress reducer.
- Eat well – skipping meals will deplete your energy and leave you drained.
- Talk to your family and friends. Make time to see your mates will help you unwind and let you unburden any problems.
- For more tips read our Coping with stress factsheet.
- TheSite's Stresshead tool was designed by young people to help relax and distract you when it all gets too much. It also has great stress-relief advice.
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Updated on 13-Apr-2015