RSVP

If a mate has been kind enough to invite you to a party, it's only right to let them know whether you can make it. Not only is it polite, it'll help them work out how much food and drink is required to keep everyone happy.

Bring a bottle

Naturally, the host will supply some booze, but you can't expect them to cater for everyone all night. If you're going to drink, bring a token gesture with you, or if you want to be imaginative then a small gift for the host will set you up as the party star you hope to be.

Turn up on time

There's nothing worse than organising a party, only to be left waiting for the pub to shut before the guests decide to show up. You don't have to ring the doorbell on the dot, but within half an hour of the official kick off time demonstrates good breeding.

Mingle

Nobody relishes that moment when you first walk into a party. All manner of insecurities can kick in, but those soon vanish when you spot a familiar face. Tempting as it is to talk to them all night, it's important that you circulate. Think of the party as a pool of water - if it doesn't get stirred around, things quickly go mouldy and start to stink.

Question time

You know how crushingly dull it can be when someone corners you in the kitchen and proceeds to tell you all about their last holiday. Don't be that person. Go in with a good question, and show an interest in whoever you're chatting to. It's flattering, and you might earn yourself a kiss under the mistletoe.

Leave on time

If you're still there when the host switches on the lights and whips out the Hoover, you've screwed up. As soon as you notice the party begin to thin, start thinking about getting your coat.

Thank the host

If you want to leave the right impression, be sure to track down the host and let them know what a great time you've had. Unless, of course, they're 'busy' in the bedroom.

Updated: 16/12/2009