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05142008 Wednesday May 14, 2008

Were we right to publish it?

Every so often, we have to take difficult decisions about what we publish; and what we choose not to. We've always taken a stance that our site users make their own mind up about the information that we publish; which is why we try never to preach about drugs, crime or safe sex. That stance means that we rarely hold back on providing information and true stories providing they are based on fact and honestly-held opinion.

But sometimes that is not enough, and we've had a engaging debate as to whether to publish an article we commissioned on prostitution. According to the Home Office, nearly one in 20 men aged 16-43 have paid for sex in the last five years; and in London that figure nearly doubles. There are about 80,000 individuals involved in prostitution in the UK, roughly the same number as those who work in the social housing sector. And although soliciting, brothels and kerb-crawling are all illegal; the actual act of paying or accepting payment for sex isn't.

So when we interviewed an escort who described how much money she got paid, how safe and in control she feels and how her biggest problem is clients with smelly breath; there was a collective expression of concern. The reality is that this is highly atypical of the sex industry; and the majority of prostitutes are there because of a dependence on income to pay for drugs, or increasingly through being trafficked or tricked into coming to the UK. Many prostitutes are victims of violence and rape whilst working, and again according to the Home Office, 75% were forced into prostitution before they turned 18, and 95% are involved to support theirs, or their partner's, drug problem.

The last thing we wanted to do was publish a story that glamorised the sex-industry, or glossed over the horrific experiences that leads people into prostitution. ITV came in for plenty of criticism over the Billie Piper fronted Belle Du Jour, and that was labelled as entertainment. But we're not about entertainment - we're here to provide information.

But conversely there are claims (and research) that more and more female students are turning to the sex industry to help fund their way through university. We're here to reflect the realities of being aged between 16-24 in the UK. The drug trade is equally full of horrific and brutal statistics---albeit the majority not in this country---and yet we publish information on drugs because we know that many young people in the UK use them.

So we have published the story. Because ultimately we're not here to tell people how to live their lives.

I'd be interested to know if you think that was the right decision.

Olly

Posted by Olly ( 11:49 AM ) Link to this post  |  Comments[4]

Comments:

Your escort's story is as valid as anyone else's, even if it's not representative. It's also interesting; you should put it up.

BUT since TheSite is a charity-run website set up to provide information, you'd be doing both the donators and the users a disservice if you ran the story without a proviso - some info and stats like the ones above to put this anecdotal interest piece in context.

I know that is editorializing, and it would be annoying on a news website, but anyone who comes to TheSite is canny enough to want the full story, not just half of it, so they can decide for themselves!

Posted by Sophie on May 22, 2008 at 11:14 AM GMT+00:00 #

I think that website like yours (which i think is gr8, by the way) should be able to publish stuff like that. I think its slly that all we ever get told is the terrible stuff, thats made out to be awful. good on you for writing articles like this!

Posted by em on June 10, 2008 at 03:45 PM GMT+00:00 #

I think it was right but being friends with someone who was forced into it and raped and beaten in brothels I think it would be good to publish articles from the other side of things too. As you said The Site tries to show real life.

Posted by .. on June 20, 2008 at 11:10 PM GMT+00:00 #

The subject needs to be continually discussed, It is complicated contentious and controversial. All sides need to be shown, and heard, and all ends of the multple spectrums, from street girls, girls in knocking shops, to independant escorts. Also the other range of people who are touched by it, friends, family, and the "customers" should all be heard. This industry, just as any other serious money making industry is based on exploitation. This is a massive real life industry and is about as real as life gets. The issues and influences involved are immense.
What do I know? I am a married middle aged father of two, emotionally and sexually involved with "another" Women who was selling her body, who is a single handedly bringing up two children on no income other than benefits.
There are hundreds of stories to be told.

Posted by Jo on June 21, 2008 at 01:03 PM GMT+00:00 #

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