Who's the daddy?
Question
I had sex with two people (within a week of each other) and now I'm pregnant. The problem is, I don't know which one is the father. I don't know what to do, is there any way I can find out which one is the dad?
Answer
As you had sex with both partners within a week of each other it would be difficult to find out for sure who the father is without paternity testing.
This will require a blood or DNA sample from one or both of the potential fathers, so you'll need to think carefully about how you will talk to them about the situation.
Tests can be done as early as the 10th week of pregnancy.
You can't get paternity tests on the NHS; it's a service you will have to pay for. Even if the test is court-directed (for example, as part of getting maintenance support for a child), you will have to pay for it, unless you are getting government help with your legal fees.
You can call you can NHS Direct on 0845 4647 for a list of approved testers. Your local doctor (GP) will also be able to provide information.
If you'd like to talk to someone about this situation, your sexual health or contraception in more detail, you can call in at your local Brook Centre or call the Brook Freephone Helpline on 0800 0185 023.
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