Ask about Relationships

Need a bit of help with your boyfriend/girlfriend, mates, sex, dating or your family? You’re in the right place.

Just type your relationship question into the box below and one of our expert advisors will respond within two working days.

This service is free and completely confidential. It’s for 16-25 year-olds in the UK. If you’re not in this group, or if your question isn't about relationships, we won’t be able to answer - but we will direct you to another organisation that can help.


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The more you tell us about your problem, the better we'll be able to help you. See our privacy policy and confidentiality policy.

This service is aimed at 16-25 years-olds. Under 16? Please go to Ask Sam at Childline - they'll be happy to help.
For financial and legal reasons we can only help users living in the UK.
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This is a free information service and is not intended to replace or substitute for the services of professional experts but rather to provide signposts towards further information and support.

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