Syphilis stress
Question
I had a one-night stand with this guy. I masturbated him and rubbed his penis outside my vagina. Afterwards I started to worry that I'd caught something. I went to my doctor and although she tested me for basic STIs she didn't test me for syphilis because I didn't have any open sores. I'm really worried I could have syphilis. Could I have it? Please help me put my mind at rest.
Answer
Syphilis is caused by a bacterium and can be passed on through unprotected oral or penetrative sex. It can also be passed on through skin-to-skin contact if the person with syphilis has a sore or rash.
It's worth knowing that, according to the NHS, syphilis is still one of the less common sexually transmitted infections in the UK. It is also important to remember that the person you had the one-night stand with might not even have syphilis or a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
As you're worried about the possibility that you may have caught syphilis you might want to consider having a test to put your mind at rest. You don't need to be tested by your doctor (GP); instead you can get advice and testing at a genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. Services are located attached to, or within, local hospitals, and are usually separate, discreet departments. GUM consultations are free and confidential, which means that no one will be told about your visit, unless you want them to be.
Tests for infections vary. Some involve taking swabs from the cervix or tip of the penis. Others involve taking a urine or blood sample. Before being tested it is usual to see a health adviser who will discuss any concerns, and reassure you about what the tests will involve.
If you'd like more information about syphilis and the sort of tests involved you can speak to a nurse via the fpa Helpline on 0845 310 1334 or you can contact NHS Direct on 0845 46 47. Alternatively you can get confidential information and support form the Brook Freephone Helpline on 0800 0185 023.
Updated: 07/06/2011
Question answered by YouthNet in association with Brook
