Pill panic
Question
I recently lost my virginity and am having sex regularly with my boyfriend. We always use condoms, but my friend scared me by telling me I should be taking the pill as well. I'd prefer not to take any pills because I still live with my parents and I don't want them to find out I'm sexually active. Is it really necessary? Am I at risk of getting pregnant?
Answer
When it comes to contraception it is best to consider what feels right for you and your partner, and what you feel comfortable with. Some people do like to use two methods of contraception for extra safety and reassurance, but this is a personal choice.
There are many methods of contraception available and different methods suit different people. All methods have advantages and disadvantages and as your sexual relationship develops, you will get a better idea about what suits your needs best.
Do remember, though, that if you use condoms correctly and they don't split or slip off, they are 98% effective in preventing pregnancy. It is also sensible to use them because they're the only form of contraception that protects against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
If you'd like more advice on different types of contraception, you can go along to your local Brook Centre (for under 25s) or family planning clinic or you could also talk to your local doctor (GP). You can speak to someone in confidence about your own and your family's medical history to help decide which method of contraception will suit you best, and contraception will be free.
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